I'm a African-American master [bdsm] who is seeking a white female slave yet ever website that advertise bdsm? have women who are already owned or who are just playing. Where can I go to get real bdsm females? |
| Get off your butt and go look for one in munchg roups etc? :P |
Good BDSM manga with male dom and female sub? Can anyone recommend me some good bdsm manga with a male dom and a female sub? No yaoi or yuri, please! I've already read Nana to Kaoru, which is a great read, and I recommend it to anyone who is interested in bdsm and hasn't read it yet. Thanks! |
Here are two for you :
Ghost talker ( female dominatrix with psychic ability ) and MM! ( M guy and S girls ) |
How do you find a submissive female in Australia, where there isn't a BDSM community? My husband and i live in a small town in South Australia, there is no BDSM community. I am Bi and desperate to bring a submissive girl into our relationship.
What i want to know is how have you think you can tell bi or lesbian girls, or any other pointers for collaring a submissive? |
try googling bdsm south australia
there are groups and forums online for everything |
Looking for BDSM songs about female submission by female artists...? I'm Looking for BDSM songs about female submission by female artists. Can anyone help?
What I'm looking for are songs that are PRO fem-sub. There are plenty of Male artists singing about it, but having trouble finding female artists. Any Help would be appreciated!! Thanks! ;) |
Nedra Johnson has a few songs and videos, she is a submissive lesbian.
Lady Gaga's song Teeth.
Janet Jackson's songs Rope Burn and Discipline
Melissa Etheridge , forgot the title
Madonna, maybe, although it's more likely to be from the dom's point of view. |
Is a 17yo female with subdominant, or "servant" tendencies in relation to BDSM strange? Is that too young to be involved in that kind of sexual activity, especially with the majority occurring on the internet over chat-sites? |
| I would be a little freaked out that you already know that's what your into by age 17. |
Where can i find a bdsm female in the racine area for a male newbie? i'm new at this and just want to try it |
| The very best way is to get involved with your local BDSM community. Find out about munchs and events and start attending. Unless you are looking for a ProDomme, where you pay for a service, then you will need to be known in your community. |
BDSM question: Do you think that some people get too snotty about male vs. female domination in BDSM? I've been on sites such as taken in hand:
www.takeninhand.com/woman.whisper…
And seen BDSM communities such as the Other World Kingdom:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Other_World…
And I've been surprised at how people in to maledom can insist that their way of BDSM is the only right way and anything else is unnatural, and people in femdom can do the same to people in maledom. If they're all enjoying BDSM here, why do they have to care whether the man or the woman dominates? So, has anyone else in BDSM had the experience of Maledom vs. Femdom people being snotty towards each other? Why do people do this? Does anyone else feel the same way?
My opinions and experiences: (Warning, long block of text ahead. Feel free to skip.)
I'm a female sub, one of my closest Y!A friends is a male sub. We talk about submission occasionally and get along just fine. We don't see submission too differently because of our differing sexes in my experience.
And there is also gay and lesbian BDSM. So the power dynamic doesn't have to be based on gender at all. The only thing it has to be based on is desire to dominate'/desire to submit.
I enjoy BDSM and I don't really care if it's a lady or a gentleman sub bent over the spanking bench next to me, and if it's a Domme or a Dom spanking them. So long as everything's SSC everyone's getting off (or not getting off, if they're into orgasm denial) everything's fine.
...too graphic? |
Are you really that surprised? Lift BDSM right out of the equation and substitute it with religion.
Take Catholicism and Protestantism for example. Both fall under the umbrella of Christianity, both worship God/Jesus, both have certain tenets in common, yet there are sometimes bitter disputes over minute ideology, with each side convinced theirs is the ONLY correct interpretation.
People cling to their ideas and convictions passionately, perhaps afraid to consider what they have long held to be true to be anything otherwise.
The irony of this situation in the BDSM community cannot be overstated though. BDSM prides itself on the "to each their own" sort of mentality, supporting the rights of people who want to engage in scatology as much as the person who enjoys a little light spanking...supposedly it's a very inclusive community, but you will find your fair share of elitists there too. |